Dr. Hallowell tells us that if we don’t reconstruct our boundaries, we will be too crazy busy to enjoy life.
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CLEAR ALL
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This is how resentment feels like. Distant. Mad. Disappointed. . We can get it by receiving continual demeaning comments or by the unreasonable demands of a boss, a parent or a partner. . “I just don’t know how to rid myself of this resentment!” - is a cry I hear too often.
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Do you struggle to say no when others demand or expect something from you? Do you fold under pressure, constantly apologize, and have a fear of disappointing others? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by therapist, content creator, and author Nedra Glover Tawwab to discuss...
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Sarri Gilman has found that clear boundaries enhance relationships and the quality of life. Sarri is author of “Transform Your Boundaries,” which she based on insights gleaned from decades of experience as a marriage and family therapist.
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When you hear the word “boundary,” you may imagine a physical line or barrier. However, when it comes to emotions, boundaries have a different meaning. Personal boundaries matter in significant relationships. Some individuals attempt to manipulate us or take advantage of our kind nature.
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This video is included in the free online Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction course (MBSR) by Palouse Mindfulness. It is an edited compilation of three videos.
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In relationships, it’s natural to join with others, but it’s also fundamentally important to have a strong sense of your own autonomy. By strengthening your sense of “me”—in effect, establishing a kind of secure base inside yourself—you will be more able to explore “we" out in the world.
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Setting effective boundaries starts with knowing who you are and how you feel. Luckily, your nervous system sets physical boundaries for you in every moment, and you can grab onto these pre-existing boundaries to help define yourself and tune into your own emotions and your own needs.
Your healthy anger should arise when your sense of self and your idea of how things should be (your boundaries) are challenged or broken. What you do next, and how you re-set your boundaries, determines the outcome for you and for your relationships. Healthy anger can change your life!