Today Samuel discusses gaslighting and both the betrayed and unfaithful spouse.
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Can couples recover from an affair? In this brief video clip, Julie Gottman describes each phase of the Gottman Trust Revival Method, for guiding couples recovering from an affair: Atone, Attune & Attach
Everyone brings a legacy of past relationships to your new ones. When that past includes infidelity, it can be difficult to trust that your new partner is trust-worthy. This is not a concern that will magically vanish.
Once a cheater always a cheater. True or False? - Sara in Portland, Oregon
On March 19, 2015 Esther Perel delivered a TEDTalk about affairs. This series is an expansion of that talk, to dive deeper into a few areas of conversation.
The first question that we ask is “Why? Why would you do this to me?” We look at the possible list of reasons: Lust Need for sexual validation Problems in the relationship But no matter how hard we try, it’s hard to ever get a clear answer about why people really people cheat.
Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? Relationship therapist Esther Perel examines why people cheat, and unpacks why affairs are so traumatic: because they threaten our emotional security. In infidelity, she sees something unexpected - an expression of longing and loss.
Esther Perel and Chris Cuomo. Iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author Esther Perel takes a groundbreaking and provocative look at infidelity, arguing for a more nuanced and less judgmental conversation about our transgressions.