I learned again and again in my life, until you get your own act together, you’re not ready for Big Love. What you’re ready for is one of those codependent relationships where you desperately need a partner.
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Barbara Emrys
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Barbara Emrys — 2007
Excerpts from a Toltec Dreaming lecture and recent Interview.
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Excerpts from a Toltec Dreaming lecture and recent Interview.
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