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The Best Predictor of Divorce | Dr. John Gottman

By John Gottman — 2010

Dr. Gottman talks about how a critical mindset poisons relationships and even affects the immune system. Couples can learn how to avoid this by learning some new skills.

03:28 min

09:34

Partner Expectations | What You Need and What You Want

Kim Eng shares that there is nothing wrong with expectations, but we should not become overly attached to them. Instead, we need to inquire into the source of those expectations to determine whether they are healthy and reasonable, or if they arise from the unconsciousness of the pain-body.

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Kim Eng
2019
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05:21

Why We Go Cold on Our Partners

Going cold on our partners is often a sign not that we have stopped caring, but that we are - somewhere deep down - furious or hurt

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2016
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05:08

Who Initiates Sex and Why It Matters So Much

The issue of who shows an interest in having a physical relationship in a couple might be mistaken for rather trivial; after all, what counts is that it happens, not that one or the other party initiates.

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2018
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06:35

The Love Avoidance Cycle: The Pattern of Avoiding Intimacy and Emotional Unavailability.

Dr. Kate discusses how someone in a love addiction cycle generally pairs up with someone in a love avoidance cycle, because their needs are similar but opposite in terms of how they're expressed. Someone in a love avoidance cycle typically enters a relationship under a feeling of obligation or duty.

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2020
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15:04

The Avoidant Partner: How to Respond When Your Partner Is Evasive

Healthy relationships are built upon skills emphasizing connection and affirmation. Sometimes, though, a partner may be reluctant to connect, becoming avoidant. This can be especially common when conflicts arise.

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2017
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18:28

Avoidant and Anxious Relationship Struggles: How to Spot the Trap

Now, the point I really want to make today, is that you don’t need to have experienced significant trauma, or attachment disruptions in your past, to slip into experiencing anxiety or avoidance as a go to coping skill for stress in a romantic situation.

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2020
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14:35

Break Ups & Break Downs: A Survival Guide for When Relationships End

This is a "how-to" survive video on handling a painful break-up. Relationships have many challenges and when they end we can experience powerful emotions, depression, and even a breakdown. In this video, I offer many good tips on how to get through the process no matter how bad it gets.

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Spring Washam
2021
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02:40

Russell Brand on Having Attachment Issues

Do you ever get too attached to some thing, some person, some goal?

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Russell Brand
2019
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02:40

Surviving a Breakup - Russell Brand

How have you dealt with heartbreak?

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Russell Brand
2019
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01:11:32

How to Manage the Psychological Effects of Retirement with Robert Delamontagne

Dr. Robert Delamontagne is a leading expert on the psychological aspects of retirement. He’s the author of the Retiring Mind series of books, in which he helps people manage the negative psychological effects they experience after retiring.

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2019
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Divorce and Breakup