I learned again and again in my life, until you get your own act together, you’re not ready for Big Love. What you’re ready for is one of those codependent relationships where you desperately need a partner.

Bruce Harold Lipton is an American cell biologist, author, and speaker who focuses on connecting science and spirit. Lipton asserts that our own programmed beliefs—beliefs internalized as children and rooted in the subconscious—exert control over our individual human biology, and he describes techniques to change internalized programs for greater health and well-being.