If you begin to understand what you are without trying to change it, then what you are undergoes a transformation. 
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Ep.19 Say What You Mean With Oren Jay Sofer
The Road Home with Ethan Nichtern
Oren Jay Sofer visits the Road Home Podcast for a conversation about integrating our spiritual practices into how we communicate.
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Oren Jay Sofer visits the Road Home Podcast for a conversation about integrating our spiritual practices into how we communicate.
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