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Didn’t See That Coming: Putting Life Back Together When Your World Falls Apart

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By Rachel Hollis — 2020

When it comes to the “hard seasons” of life—the death of a loved one, divorce, loss of a job—transformation seems impossible when grief and uncertainty dominate your days. Especially when, as Didn’t See that Coming reveals, no one asks to have their future completely rearranged for them. See more...

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The Avoidant Partner: How to Respond When Your Partner Is Evasive

Healthy relationships are built upon skills emphasizing connection and affirmation. Sometimes, though, a partner may be reluctant to connect, becoming avoidant. This can be especially common when conflicts arise.

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Harville and Helen: The Imago Process

Harville Hendrix and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, talk about the Imago Process theory and therapy that they co-created to help couples be more effective in their life and relationships.

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The Negative Stories that Can Poison a Relationship | SuperSoul Sunday | Oprah Winfrey Network

Best-selling author Elizabeth Lesser reveals how examining and deconstructing false narratives can help repair the relationships that matter most to us.

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How to Complain Without Hurting Your Partner | Dr. Julie Gottman | Relationship Advice

Want communications in your relationship to be more effective? Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman explains the best (and worst) ways to talk to your mate about your wishes and needs.

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Diffusing Difficult Conversations with Love | Dr. Julie Gottman

You've approached your partner in a gentle manner, to bring up an issue you want to discuss (called a "softened startup"). What if you get negative response? Listen to Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman explain how to work around this.

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How Much Negativity Can Your Relationship Stand? | Dr. John Gottman

Dr. Gottman talks about how the ratio of positive to negative interactions during conflict predicts divorce.

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Stop Bickering. It's Killing Your Relationship - Esther Perel

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Fight Smarter: Avoid the Most Common Argument Patterns - Esther Perel

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112: How and Why to Apologize Effectively with Harriet Lerner

Have you ever received an apology that didn’t quite cut it? That made things even worse? Plus, let’s face it - life can be messy. Despite your best intentions, it is nearly impossible to avoid causing harm or hurt every so often.

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Divorce and Breakup