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Freedom from Your Inner Critic: A Self-Therapy Approach

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By Jay Earley, Bonnie Weiss — 2025

We’ve all heard the voice of the inner critic―that part of us that judges us, shames us, and makes us feel inadequate. “You don’t want to give in to the Critic, and it doesn’t really work to fight against it,” explains Dr. Jay Earley. See more...

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