BOOK

FindCenter AddIcon
Book Image

Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity

Book Image

By Shirley P. Glass, Jean Coppock Staeheli — 2004

You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words, “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. See more...

FindCenter Video Image

Masters of Love

Every day in June, the most popular wedding month of the year, about 13,000 American couples will say “I do,” committing to a lifelong relationship that will be full of friendship, joy, and love that will carry them forward to their final days on this Earth.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image

Debunking Relationship Myths: An Interview with John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman

In all kinds of relationships, people have conflict and disagreements and hurt one another's feelings. What determines the success of the relationship is the way people deal with conflict, the nature of their friendship and intimacy, and their shared meaning system.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image

Five Myths About Marriage

Marriage is one of the oldest social, economic, religious and legal institutions in the world, and there’s no shortage of opinions on what makes it work. But much of the conventional wisdom is not based on evidence, and some is flat-out wrong.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image

John Gottman on Trust and Betrayal

The nation's top marriage expert explains why trust is essential to couples and communities--and how we can build it.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image

Making Relationships Work

Unless you’re a hermit, you can’t avoid relationships. And your professional career certainly won’t go anywhere if you don’t know how to build strong, positive connections. Leaders need to connect deeply with followers if they hope to engage and inspire them.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image
05:37

Trust Revival Method - Drs. Julie & John Gottman

Can couples recover from an affair? In this brief video clip, Julie Gottman describes each phase of the Gottman Trust Revival Method, for guiding couples recovering from an affair: Atone, Attune & Attach

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image
05:59

John Gottman: Trust and Inequality

The renowned marriage expert explains that trust is found in stronger, healthier, and more just communities.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image
02:08

The Most Important Thing You Can Do to Make a Relationship Work | 7 Principles | Dr. John Gottman

With more than a million copies sold worldwide, "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image
27:54

The Mathematics of Marriage: Predicting Divorce (John Gottman)

University of Washington professor of psychology Dr. John Gottman can tell if a marriage is doomed. After 14 years of studying 650 couples with the aid of videotape and sensors, Gottman needs only a half hour with a couple to predict with 90 percent accuracy whether they will stay married.

FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Video Image
27:44

The Science of Love | John Gottman | TEDxVeniceBeach

World-renowned relationship expert John Gottman set forth to understand why relationships don’t work, but for that he needed to first understand relationships scientifically. Gottman then measured the behavior, perception and physiology of couples over time to understand how love works.

FindCenter AddIcon

EXPLORE TOPIC

Infidelity