Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. . . . It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest. Once the element of competition is gone, pride is gone.
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Being Generous Really Does Make You Happier
By Amanda MacMillan
Researchers say they’ve discovered that even thinking about doing something generous has real mood-boosting benefits in the brain.
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