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‘Perhaps Life Would Be Easier if I Shaved, But Why?’
By Alok Vaid-Menon — 2019
When I told my family I was trans, one of their initial reactions was, “But you’re so hairy! It’s going to be so difficult to remove all your hair to be a woman, so you should just give up.” They were zeroing in on my body hair as the barrier for me to be seen as feminine.
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