When forgiveness experts talk in binary language (’You either forgive the wrongdoer or you are a prisoner of your own anger and hate’), they are collapsing the messy complexity of human emotions into a simplistic dichotomous equation.
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We Don’t Just Need to Connect—We Need to Reconnect
By Adam Grant — 2020
Rekindling dormant ties can bring unexpected benefits to our lives.
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