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Celebrating My (Gay) Divorce

By Steven Petrow — 2019

Marriage equality means divorce equality—and I feel pride, as well as sadness, about my split from my husband.

Read on www.theatlantic.com

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Feeling angry signals a problem, venting anger does not solve it. Venting anger may serve to maintain, and even rigidify, the old rules and patterns in a relationship, thus ensuring that change does not occur.

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Harriet Lerner
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We cannot make another person change his or her steps to an old dance, but if we change our own steps, the dance no longer can continue in the same predictable pattern.

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Harriet Lerner
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How ironic that the difficult times we fear might ruin us are the very ones that can break us open and help us blossom into who we were meant to be.

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Elizabeth Lesser
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Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.

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C. S. Lewis
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If you love deeply, you’re going to get hurt badly. But it’s still worth it.

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C. S. Lewis
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We meet no ordinary people in our lives.

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C. S. Lewis
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What Is “Intimacy Avoidance”? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships)

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Ramani Durvasula
2020
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Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

How do you know if you are in a relationship with a narcissist—and what can you do about it? Narcissism is a modern epidemic—and it’s spreading rapidly. Narcissists tend to be pretty on the outside, but empty on the inside.

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Ramani S. Durvasula
2017
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The Ten-Second Miracle: Creating Relationship Breakthroughs

This guide to improving relationships shows the reader how to understand the nature of each conflict and address it directly. The author offers a simple practical system that should counteract misunderstanding and conflict, in order to turn moments of difficulty into zones of possibility.

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Gay Hendricks
1998
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Spiritual Psychology: Trusting the Divine Within Us

In this University of Santa Monica video from a Special Evening on "Forgiveness", Drs. Ron and Mary Hulnick use the principles and practices of Spiritual Psychology to answer the question "Can trust ever be repaired?"

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2010
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