How ironic that the difficult times we fear might ruin us are the very ones that can break us open and help us blossom into who we were meant to be.
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How I Navigated Coming Out to My Traditional Asian Family
By Emily Hashimoto — 2020
A queer author of color on the limits of language and the maximums of love.
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