'Knock and it shall be opened.’ But does knocking mean hammering and kicking the door like a maniac?
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What Happens When Your Position Is Eliminated?
By Jonathan Graham — 2021
Jonathan Graham describes how he's tried to heal and offers some advice to others in the same situation -- or who fear they might be.
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