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Sex, Intimacy, and Being Gay

By J Nelson Aviance — 2014

Sex seems central to intimate and romantic relationships. If it is a means of intimate communication, and communication is the secret to a lasting and healthy relationship, why don’t we gay men talk about it that way more often?

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LGBTQIA Relationships