By Carol Lee
It’s hard to picture what foster parenting will really be like if you’ve never been a foster parent before. But, when foster parents say they’re “all in” when they aren’t, kids get hurt.
Read on bethany.org
CLEAR ALL
A family brought back together and healed is a wonderful thing, but on the other side of that is a foster family left with a broken heart.
The author feels strongly that foster parents who are able to recognize their limits before they reach them are better equipped to keep going.
Parenting foster children who have come to your home from trauma, neglect or abuse is likely the hardest work you will ever do. It requires you to have a wide variety of tools in your parenting toolbox. Self-care for foster parents is one of the most important tools you can have in that toolbox.
The author of this essay has cared for 16 kids in the last three years and yet, many people do not recognize her as a “real” mom.
My wife and I are both full time Foster Carers with Kent Fostering and started our fostering journey when our children were babies.
The early stages of fostering a child will include a major adjustment period. After all, both your life and the life of the child will be changing significantly. The first few days tend to be the most difficult, but if you follow these tips, you can ease that transition.
The licensing process – and the training, home visits and court dates – can be intimidating. Here’s what you need to know.