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Therapist Says: Alone Time for Moms Is a Necessity, Not an Indulgence
By Jesi Taylor Cruz — 2019
“Self-care” is having a real cultural moment. But when you’re a mom, trying to find the time to focus on yourself and only yourself can feel downright impossible.
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