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No, Moms: It’s Not Selfish to Make Yourself a Priority
By Bonnie Gibbs Vengrow — 2017
If you feel guilty about self-care, know this, mama: Taking care of yourself isn’t a luxury—it’s an essential part of being a good mom.
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