As many conventionally unhappy parents did in the 1950s, my parents stayed together for the sake of the children—they divorced after my youngest brother left home for college.
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Why Competition Is Good for Kids (and How to Keep It That Way)
By Devan McGuinness
When done right, competition can help your children learn skills they'll use throughout their lives.
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