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Criticism Is the Toxic Habit that Can Slowly Ruin Your Relationship

By Kelsey Borresen — 2019

Experts say this common communication issue can push couples apart.

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Learn This Surprising Ingredient to Relationship Success

Relationship success requires us to follow this counter-intuitive rule.

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Harriet Lerner
2020
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Overcoming Your Listening Disorder

We naturally become defensive when our spouse begins to criticize us. We listen to refute or correct the inaccuracies, distortions and exaggerations that are inevitably there. The challenge is to listen only to understand.

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Harriet Lerner
2012
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Ten Steps to Having Both a Relationship and a Self

How to have a strong self and a strong relationship without losing either.

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Harriet Lerner
2020
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Three Simple Rules for Criticizing a Difficult Person

These three rules for voicing your criticisms are game changers.

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Harriet Lerner
2020
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Criticism and Rejection