ARTICLE

FindCenter AddIcon

Criticism Is the Toxic Habit that Can Slowly Ruin Your Relationship

By Kelsey Borresen — 2019

Experts say this common communication issue can push couples apart.

Read on www.huffpost.com

FindCenter Post-Image

You Are Being Redirected...

The way you approach a hard conversation either reinforces a pathway for exchange or erodes trust in the relationship. You can set yourself up for a more productive, less volatile exchange by being clear about what you are trying to accomplish by treading into challenging terrain.

Article
Anna Sale
2021
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

Ezra Klein Interviews Anna Sale

A hard conversation is about trying to sort of understand more focus on descriptions and sharing experience but not wrapping it all up neatly at the end because when you try to do that, you’re sort of pushing through what actually is the hard thing

Article
Ezra Klein; Anna Sale
2021
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

How to Make Your Small Talk Big

We’ve forgotten how to talk to people. . .Our entire social lives have become a middle school dance: unrealistic expectations in the lead-up, self-conscious regrets in the aftermath.

Article
Anna Sale
2021
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

Trust Issues: Why Is It So Hard for Some People to Trust?

It’s become more and more difficult to remain vulnerable, trusting, and open to life in this era of uncertainty, global upheaval, divorce, and disrupted family life.

Article
Joyce Catlett
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

Everyday Diplomacy

Your idea of a great Sunday is to rise with the sun for a long run. Your partner, however, has other ideas. His notion of a proper Sunday involves sleeping late and enjoying a leisurely brunch over the Sunday paper.

Article
Joseph Hart
2007
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

According to Oprah, All Your Arguments Come Down to These 3 Questions

If the answers are no, there’s likely going to be a problem.

Article
Melanie Curtin
2018
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

Defending Against ‘Predatory Listening’

My relative had asked for my opinion, but when I gave it, he launched into what sounded like a well-rehearsed argument, taking issue with each thing I had said and critiquing my character. I felt like I’d walked into a trap.

Article
Oren Jay Sofer
2021
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

10 Communication Problems and Mistakes We All Make

Communication problems are the number one reason couples split up, with 65% of couples citing this issue as the primary cause of divorce, according to a 2013 survey.

Article
GoodTherapy Staff
2015
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

I’m Not O.K., You’re Not O.K.—And That’s O.K.

When we read the news, we might find ourselves overwhelmed with “non-OK-ness,” but Sylvia Boorstein says there are ways we can work with that feeling.

Article
Sylvia Boorstein
2018
FindCenter AddIcon
FindCenter Post-Image

Beyond Good and Evil

It sounds simple, yet it’s more than a technique for resolving conflict. It’s a different way of understanding human motivation and behavior.

Article
D. Killian
2003
FindCenter AddIcon

EXPLORE TOPIC

Criticism and Rejection