By Kristin Wong — 2020
Play can feel silly, unproductive and time consuming. And that’s precisely the point.
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It’s surprisingly easy to achieve lasting happiness — we just have to understand our own basic nature. The hard part, says Mingyur Rinpoche, is getting over our bad habit of seeking happiness in transient experiences.
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What matters is not so much the “what” of a job, but more the “who” and the “why”: Job satisfaction comes from people, values, and a sense of accomplishment.
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A discussion of the philosophy of happiness in life can be seen as an examination of the very nature of happiness and what it means for the universe.
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