Do not waste time bothering whether you ‘love’ your neighbor; act as if you did. As soon as we do this we find one of the great secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him.
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How to Stay Focused on Your Goals When You Are Worn Out
By James Clear — 2021
We all have goals and dreams, but it can be difficult to stick with them.
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