By Deborah Farmer Kris — 2020
With families around the world spending unprecedented amounts of time in close quarters – and under varying degrees of stress – emotions can run high.
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Our culture has taught us that we do not have the privilege of being vulnerable like other communities.
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As parents, we need to step off our pedestal, stop dominating our kids, and instead treat them as we like to be treated. After all, do you like being shamed? Does it bring out the best in you?
The mild feeling of shame — the prefrontal cortex clutch shifting — is how kids learn to shift themselves from "forbidden" behavior to acceptable behavior.
Here's what you need to know about shaming your kids online and in public, including examples of shaming words that single parents, in particular, should avoid.
I wanted to give them better than what I had. It wasn't easy.