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Transforming Conflict

By Diane Musho Hamilton — 2013

Learning how to negotiate conflict demands that we become more present, more fearless. We may need to relinquish the hopeful image of ourselves as remaining serene under all circumstances, like sitting buddhas carved from wood or stone

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Managing the Flames of Conflict

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I Was Ghosted By My Friends When I Got Cancer

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Conflict Resolution