By Dalai Lama Center — 2014
The strategies that children and youth use to resolve conflict change as they grow up. Stages of brain development are highly influential to both how children approach conflict and to the kinds of support adults can offer to build skills.
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Considering how to make the children in our lives better people helps us reflect on how we ourselves can be more compassionate.
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