By Lori H. Gordon — 2016
How relationships are sabotaged by hidden expectations.
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CLEAR ALL
Motherhood is supposed to be all about love and joy. So why do so many moms feel so bad?
How did I picture us all living together in that house? I didn’t. I was like someone who shows up a bridge tournament and says, “Oh. I didn’t know we’d be playing cards.”
Motherhood is an identity that calls for women to forgo belonging in their romantic relationships, professional aspirations, and even the public sphere in exchange for isolation and disconnection peppered with private praise drowned out by public critique and social exclusion.
Through studies of fetal DNA, researchers are revealing how a child can shape a mom’s heart and mind—literally
Worldwide, mothers are overworked, underpaid, often lonely and made to feel guilty about everything from epidurals to bottle feeding. Fixing this is the unfinished work of feminism.