By Elle Hunt — 2020
Many of us treat joy like the good china, only warranted on special occasions. Even if we know it is within our reach, we may not see it is within our control.
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Pleasure can be a boon or a burden, depending on our relationship to it. It can leaven laborious days, or lead us to waste them. The pleasures of a mild stimulant such as caffeine can be harmless or even beneficial, but the pleasures of amphetamines can be deadly.
You not calling, as a friend, can actually compound the grief and loss they are feeling. Just pick up the phone, even if you get it wrong, just have a conversation and do your best. Your friend with cancer is still the same person they were before.
The people you surround yourself with have a profound impact on your happiness.
For most of my life, I clung to the belief that I wasn’t happy because I “just wasn’t wired that way.”
Lynne Twist, a philanthropist and author of The Soul of Money, believes that generosity flows out of gratitude, as she explains in this short film by acclaimed filmmaker Louie Schwartzberg.
Some people harbor the illusion that rest is a luxury they do not have time for, but the reality is that rest is a necessity.
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You can find deep, lasting happiness in a good deed that no one knows you did.
Simple ways to be more generous to others.
Virtues such as generosity are complicated. They involve more than just outward behaviour. A person’s underlying thoughts, feelings and motives matter, too.
This paper presents an overview of research on the science of generosity, predominantly focusing on studies from the past 20 years.