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How to Recover from Romantic Heartbreak

By Guy Winch — 2018

Use “negative reappraisal,” and understand you have work to do—time alone may not be enough.

Read on www.scientificamerican.com

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Harville and Helen: The Imago Process

Harville Hendrix and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, talk about the Imago Process theory and therapy that they co-created to help couples be more effective in their life and relationships.

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Helen LaKelly Hunt
2018
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The Negative Stories that Can Poison a Relationship | SuperSoul Sunday | Oprah Winfrey Network

Best-selling author Elizabeth Lesser reveals how examining and deconstructing false narratives can help repair the relationships that matter most to us.

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Elizabeth Lesser
2016
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How to Complain Without Hurting Your Partner | Dr. Julie Gottman | Relationship Advice

Want communications in your relationship to be more effective? Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman explains the best (and worst) ways to talk to your mate about your wishes and needs.

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Julie Schwartz Gottman
2011
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Diffusing Difficult Conversations with Love | Dr. Julie Gottman

You've approached your partner in a gentle manner, to bring up an issue you want to discuss (called a "softened startup"). What if you get negative response? Listen to Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman explain how to work around this.

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Julie Schwartz Gottman
2010
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How Much Negativity Can Your Relationship Stand? | Dr. John Gottman

Dr. Gottman talks about how the ratio of positive to negative interactions during conflict predicts divorce.

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John Gottman
2010
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Stop Bickering. It's Killing Your Relationship - Esther Perel

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Esther Perel
2017
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Fight Smarter: Avoid the Most Common Argument Patterns - Esther Perel

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Esther Perel
2017
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112: How and Why to Apologize Effectively with Harriet Lerner

Have you ever received an apology that didn’t quite cut it? That made things even worse? Plus, let’s face it - life can be messy. Despite your best intentions, it is nearly impossible to avoid causing harm or hurt every so often.

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Harriet Lerner
2017
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Conscious Loving: The Journey to Co-Commitment

Here is a powerful new program that can clear away the unconscious agreements patterns that undermine even your best intentions.

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Gay Hendricks, Kathlyn Hendricks
1992
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Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High (Second Edition)

The first edition of Crucial Conversations exploded onto the scene and revolutionized the way millions of people communicate when stakes are high.

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Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler, Stephen Covey (foreword)
2011
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Divorce and Breakup