By Vijay Rana — 2012
The only cure for dissatisfaction, whether with your lover or the world, is tenderly feeling what is, as it is. —David Deida
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They say that having kids changes everything. That is neurologically, psychologically, and economically true.
I feel like dating used to be so simple. People meet, they arrange a time and place and hopefully it turns into happily ever after. Fast forward to now, where almost nothing is done face to face anymore — especially this year.
Why do unmarried women have to choose between motherhood and a love life? Can't we try for both at the same time?
How do you find time? Is it better to date someone else who also has kids? And when should you introduce them?
A baby changes everything—including, oftentimes, your interest in sex. Still, the goal isn’t to get the “old you” back. It’s to figure out who you are now.
Perhaps it is time to open the door on the secret, sexual lives of mothers, even if it is hard for children—and we, as readers, have all been children—to contemplate this taboo: our own mother’s sexuality.
How relationships are sabotaged by hidden expectations.
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