By Awaken — 2018
“You can open to God through sex. By learning to open your heart and body while embracing and trusting all energies from rough ravishment to sublime gentleness, you can open to be lived by the mystery that lives the entire universe. - David Deida
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CLEAR ALL
In this edition of Good@Sex, Alexandra Fine—sexologist, co-founder and CEO of Dame Products, and Well+Good Changemaker—delves deep into whether existential stress and a resulting low libido would be better treated and relieved by having sex or not.
I live with my partner, and we're spending more time together than ever right now. Nothing is wrong, per se—in fact, we're getting along super well. Yet, I'm…not in the mood for sex. Well, partnered sex. You see, I am in the mood for alone time and self-pleasure.
You should have sex with someone when you want to have consensual sex with them. That is the right time for you to have sex.
As a relationship matures, I think the lack of makeup sex isn't something to worry about at all. In fact, it should be something to celebrate.
Whether you’re curious about a shift in libido, want intel about a certain relationship dynamic, are interested in exploring an untapped avenue of your sexuality, or anything else, Alexandra Fine—sexologist, co-founder and CEO of Dame Products, and Well+Good Changemaker—has an answer to offer.